Choosing To Be Happy

Did you know that happiness is a choice? Yes, you can choose to be happy or sad. Everything we do in life is a choice, so why not choose to be happy now? Over the years, I’ve notice many women waiting on that special something to come into their life in order for them to be happy with their lives. Some wait to move into that new house they always dream of having and others wait on that right man to come into their life to make them happy.


Why wait for happiness when you can start today by choosing to be happy. You probably saying to yourself, that you would love to be happy but just don’t know where to start or how to go about becoming a more happy person.

I’m here to help and guide you back home towards happiness. I’m going to give you four ways on how you can become happy with yourself.

  1. Own your happiness. Happiness is your choice. Make up in your mind that today you will be happy. A made up mind is a strong mind that cannot be change. You have to get yourself to the point and place in life that from this day forward you will be happy and will not allow for anything or anyone to steal your joy.
  2. Surround yourself with more positive happy people.If you are hanging around nothing but sad, unhappy negative people all the time, you will have to get rid of them because their energy will continue to drag you down. Have you ever notice how one day you can wake up feeling good and as soon as you get around that girlfriend who always have something negative to say, you start to feel that good energy feeling you had earlier starting to fade away, that’s because of her energy. You have to get around more happy minded people so their energy can  rub off on you.
  3. Call your happiness home. What I mean is that you have to start speaking out that you are happy. Getting in the habit of speaking positive words over your life will begin to transform your mind to think on the right thoughts. Everyday as you wake up in the morning say out loud to yourself that you are a happy person, happiness is chasing you down, it is hard for me to become sad or feel depress, peace, love and joy is all over me….you have to get in the habit of speaking faith-filled power words over your life in order to see change.
  4. Happiness is found in God and not man. If you are waiting on that man to come into your life and make your life happy than you are going to be waiting a long time. God is a jealous God and He will not allow for you to place someone else in front of him. God wants you to develop a relationship with Him and learn His ways, His thoughts. Once you begin to develop a relationship with God, you will start to see how He brings happiness into your life. He will begin to give you joy on the inside, peace like never before, and happiness that will chase you down every single day. So try God instead of man on your search for happiness.

Begin to put these four key elements into your life and you will be on your way towards happiness.

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    3 years ago


  2. Taquila Coleman
    3 years ago

    Thank you Renese, I really appreciate alot….

  3. Terron
    3 years ago

    Alot of your words change me,God has bless you with a wonderful gift to help people.

  4. Taquila Coleman
    3 years ago

    Thank You Terron, many blessings my friend….

  5. declutter
    3 years ago

    This really answered my problem, thanks!

  6. Hermes Kelly
    3 years ago

    This seriously answered my downside, thanks!