In this post, I’m going to reveal to you the mistakes you may be making that’s causing each man that you find yourself with to not want a relationship with you.
So you met a great guy and the two of you have a really good connection starting off but before the week is out you already picture in your mind the two of you in a committed relationship and the type of life that you too will have with one another. Before you know it, you find yourself acting like his woman. You call him throughout the day just to see how he is doing and to make sure he is alright. When the two of you are together, you cook for him and later top it off with amazing sex that you know will blow his mind. As you lay in bed with him wrapped in between his arms you just know that he is feeling what you are feeling and you are finally happy that you’ve found the one…until he tells you “I’m don’t want a relationship”.
What happen? I thought we had a good connection, I mean he told me he liked me and that I’m a good woman so what’s the problem? Why doesn’t he want a relationship? Or maybe he does, he’s just scared of getting hurt. I’ll show him that I’m different and is not like the rest of women that he’s been with. And just like that, you continue to date him and wait for him to one day want a relationship with you but that day never seems to come.
The mistakes that I see most women making are acting like his woman when he have not asked you to be his woman. If this is a pattern for you and you keep on getting the same results from each man then it’s time that you do something differently.
The reason why each man you find yourself with doesn’t want a relationship with you is because you are already giving him the benefits of a relationship he just haven’t verbally committed himself to you. Why should he want a relationship with you when you already giving him sex on a regular basis, cooking for him and meeting all of his emotional needs just by listening and being there for him when he needs you to be. There is no purpose or reason for him to make you his woman. Yes, he sees that you are a good woman but what he also sees is a woman who does not love herself or value herself.
One thing you have to understand about men when it comes to settling down and committing themselves to one woman is man settle down with women who make it a standard to be with them. If it’s not a requirement before sex to be in a committed relationship with you then you’re not going to get it. I know you’re thinking but why would he have sex with me knowing he doesn’t want to be with me? Because he can and at the end of the day he’s not committed to you so he’s free to leave and do whatever he wants.
To sum all of what I’m saying to you up, if a relationship is what you desire to have then you have to stop having sex and acting like his woman before he even commit himself to you. Make it a requirement to be in a monogamous relationship with you.
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