Everything was fine until you got pregnant and now he wants an abortion and you don’t, so what do you do in this situation?
If you don’t want to have an abortion then don’t have it. Let what he is saying go right over your head. This is your body, you are the one carrying the child so this is your decision to make. What do you want?
If the two of you were grown enough to lay down and make a baby then the two of you should assume the responsibility of taking care of this child.
I understand that he may be threatening to leave you and he probably stating how he is not going to be in the child’s life if you do have the baby. Listen do not allow his words to move or scare you, the bible says “when your mother and father forsake you I (God) will take you in”. What he won’t or refuses to do God will make sure that you and your child needs are met.
Don’t allow the pressure you are getting from him to guide you in aborting your child. For whatever reason he do not want you to have this child then that is on him but you my sister do what’s right and have your baby.
My advice to you is to trust all of your heart into God taking care of you and your child. Hard times will come but they will pass if you do not give up. There will be times when you will question if you’ve made the right decision because things may be getting hard for you and the father stop talking to you, all of that is OK, trust and believe God sees everything and in due time everything will turn around for your good.
In the meantime you make sure you do your part and get you and your child the necessary care that the two of you need. Don’t allow pride or guilt to keep you from asking for the kind of help you and your child need. If your wondering if you should file child support on the father then the question is yes because that’s his responsibility to take care of his child. It don’t matter what’s coming out of his mouth, he laid down with you and made a baby so he must take care of his child.
If you need to apply for assistance from the state then do it. You do what you need to do to make your situation better for you and God will do the rest.
One last thing that I will say to you in this post is learn the lesson in this situation. Stop having sex with men who are not your husband. Use this time to develop a relationship with God and your child. Work on improving you every day. Don’t allow what happen to you to cause you to get bitter but use it to make you better.
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