How To Be A Confident Woman?

As I always say, confidence starts with you!

On July 18, 2015 at 6:00 pm I am hosting a FREE class online entitle “How to be a confident woman?” and I would like for you to join me.

 

On the call I’m going to share with you the two types of confidence every woman must possess. I’m also going to share with you how to use positive self-talk which also known as affirmation, how to use it to increase your confidence in self. If you are someone who constantly doubt and second guess if you really have what it takes then I will show you exactly how to get rid of the negative limited beliefs you have about yourself that’s keeping you playing small in life.

I’m going to share with you EVERYTHING I know on how to be a confident woman so you don’t want to miss this free class.

To get access to the class simply click here to register for the call and reserve your spot.

In the meantime while you wait, if you would like more tips on how to improve yourself and your relationships then subscribe to my blog.

Men Only Want Sex From Me

Let’s talk about men only wanting sex from you.

A man cannot do anything with you without your permission. Yes the man that approaches you and asks for your phone number is going to want to have sex with you. They find you attractive but just because he wants sex from you does not mean you have to have sex with him.

It’s a reason why you are feeling this way that every man you meet ONLY wants to have sex with you. This is because you are more than likely having sex with these man you are meeting in hopes for a relationship from them but instead the man is having sex with you and moving on to the next woman.
If a relationship is what you want then you my sista is going to have to stop having sex and present yourself as valuable. You see the reason why each man you sleep with keep hitting it and quitting it is because they don’t see you as a woman they would like to settle down with. They don’t view you as relationship material because you just gave them your most precious valuable treasure…the goodies.

So in order for you to stop attracting men who only want sex from you, you are going to have to change the way you think and behave with men. Instead of thinking “I’m going to have sex with him so that he can see how good it is and then he will want a relationship with me”, you have to shift that thinking to the only man who is going to lay up with me will be my husband.

Every man is not supposed to have his way with you.

Stop using sex to get a man.

Respect yourself.

Love yourself.

Value yourself.

Then will he see you as valuable and want a relationship with you.

 

Self-Love: How Do I Love Myself?

We hear a lot of about self-love but do you really know what it means? Do you know how to love you? If not then I’m about to share with you what self-love is and how you can start loving yourself more.

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What does self-love mean? You already know that self means you and love means according to the bible in 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 says that “Love is patience, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrong. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, and always perseveres.”

Now that you know what the bible say what love is, I want to pull out a few key things in here that will show you the lack of love you have for yourself.

Love is kind: Are you kind to yourself?

Love keeps no record of wrong: Do you beat yourself up over mistakes you’ve made in the past?

Love always protects: Do you use protection with men?

Love always trust: Do you trust yourself? Are you constantly second-guessing and doubting yourself?

Depending on how you answer these questions will dictate to you if you love yourself or not.

Woman to woman: If you are sleeping with men without protection because he wants to feel you then you do not love yourself. You are putting yourself at risk for contacting a disease that could potentially kill you.

If you are involved in a relationship where you are repeatly getting disrespected, mistreated, used and abused and you don’t see anything wrong with it then sweetie you don’t love yourself.

Self-love is having loving respectful relationships with others and with yourself. People are going to treat you how you treat yourself. If you disrespect yourself by sleeping with man after man, showing off your body for attention and referring to yourself by the b-word then a man is going to do to you exactly what he see you doing to yourself.

Here are some tips to help you start the process of loving yourself.

  1. Get to the root of the problem. What is it about yourself that you don’t like? Whatever comes to mind after asking yourself these questions write that down?
  2. What would it take in order for me to like and love myself?
  3. What does it take for me to feel love from others? Whatever you write down, instead of seeking it from others, you give it to yourself first and then others will give it back to you.

Self-love starts with you. Now that you know what it is and how to love yourself, from this moment on, make a commitment to yourself that you will only have healthy loving relationships with yourself and with others.

 

 

 

Lonely To Love

Lonely to Love: How To Get The Love You Been Searching For!

Are you a single woman looking for love?

Do you struggle with feelings of loneliness?

I wanted to let you know about my upcoming FREE tele-class I’m hosting on Tuesday June 30th at 12:00 pm EST where I’m going to share with you tips and strategies on how you can overcome the feelings of loneliness. I’m also going to share with you how to get more love in your life now.

You don’t want to miss this FREE call. To reserve your spot simply click here to sign up and get your call in details sent to you.

In the meantime, be my friend on FaceBook and let me know that you will be attending the call. If you have any questions you would like for me to answer, inbox me all of your questions here.

Your Needs And God: What To Do While You Wait?

I was having a conversation with a young lady as she stated to me that she couldn’t figure out the mistakes she was making with men. She was frustrated and sick and tired of going around in this circle not getting the love she was seeking from the man that she dated. She decided to do things God’s way and stop having sex until marriage. In the meantime, she asked “What do I do about my needs?”

waiting on GodWhat a great question she asked me and here is my response: Once you make the decision to stop having sex until marriage then temptation is going to come upon you. The urge to want to have sex again is going to come back to you because that’s what you have been feeding your body. When you’re laying in bed at night, thoughts of you and your ex is going to come back to mind of how he use to hold you, kiss you and all the great things the two of you did together. This is the thing; when all of these thoughts come to you, you have to shift your mind onto something else.

Remember this: Whatever you focus on grows.

If you sit and ponder in your mind you having sex with your ex again before you know it you are going to pick up the phone and invite him over to your house only to wake up the next morning repenting and regretting that you just gave your body to him and still have not gotten what you really wanted…Love.

If you are serious about waiting until marriage to have sex then you will have to discipline your flesh daily and what I mean by that is:

  • You will have to monitor your thoughts.
  • Be aware of what you are watching on TV. No more scandal, empire etc…These shows have heated sex scenes that will cause your mind to wonder and want to have sex again.
  • Monitor the type of conversations you are having over the phone with the men that you talk to.
  • Don’t allow men to come to your house at night and you don’t go to theirs.
  • Stick to your plan of not having sex until marriage.

God knows you have needs but if you believe God to send you the man He has just for you then you must do things His way and wait patiently on Him.